my standards (leave me alone)
what i want in a man (partner)note to self: (scroll down to see standards)
TEXTING IS NOTHING. ACTIONS. DO NOT BE IMPRESSED BY WORDS.
- leave your options open until you are in a committed relationship.
- stop being loyal in a talking stage
- if he wants the privilege of being my only option, he needs to earn it.
- i will not wait for anyone to give me what i want, my time is too precious for that
- i will be the first one to leave if i feel unsatisfied
- it can always be better
- i will always be my first priority
- i will not give myself away easily
- if you want me to be free, set a date, set a timeSTANDARDS
consider him if ALL, ALL boxes are ticked.
- [ ] respects me
- [ ] is disciplined
- [ ] good habits
- [ ] healthy mentally and physically
- [ ] eats healthy (occasional fast food is okay
- [ ] works out
- [ ] respects themselves
- [ ] mentally stable
- [ ] can buy me flowers and gifts, bring me on dates
- [ ] caring
- [ ] mature
- [ ] kind
- [ ] respectful to anyone that gives them the same ammount of respect
- [ ] loves asian culture
- [ ] is passionate about chasing me
- [ ] makes me feel the same way i did when he chased me months/years into the relationship
- [ ] is ready to commit to a long relationship
- [ ] good traits
- [ ] either near me or from a rich or developed country
- [ ] 2009-2007 born
- [ ] mature
- [ ] taller than me
- [ ] good posture
- [ ] healthy weight and body size
- [ ] is respectful towards every race
- [ ] loves me dearly
- [ ] intelligent
- [ ] good grades
- [ ] hangs out with good people
- [ ] high vibration
- [ ] provider mindset
- [ ] it is what it is mindset
- [ ] has skills and talents
- [ ] 60/40 love both partners wanting to be the 60
- [ ] compliments me
- [ ] secure
- [ ] he will make time for me
- [ ] can cook
- [ ] can clean
- [ ] responsible
- [ ] kind to women
- [ ] feminist
- [ ] actions over words
- [ ] has opinions
- [ ] submissive (can be dominant but mostly submissive
- [ ] above average looks
- [ ] good friends
- [ ] plays games
- [ ] doesn’t have any kind of addiction
- [ ] “no i have a partner.” instead of “sorry i have a girlfriend”
- [ ] lives up to my standards
- [ ] is good with animals
- [ ] is respectful to our families
- [ ] similar interests
- [ ] knows how to communicate properly
- [ ] doesn’t have a high ego
- [ ] stoic
- [ ] can and will apologize
- [ ] isn’t mentally or physically disabled
- [ ] can see, hear, speak, walk
- [ ] understanding
- [ ] wholesome
- [ ] masculine
- [ ] loves traveling
- [ ] can handle spicy food
- [ ] work hard, work smart
- [ ] respects my decisions on (not) having kids in the future
- [ ] asks for consent
- [ ] medium to low sex drive
- [ ] emotionally available
- [ ] healed/healing (we can heal together or we can help eachother heal, depends)
- [ ] doesn’t manipulate (gaslight, lovebomb etc)
- [ ] honest
- [ ] self aware
- [ ] unproblematic
- [ ] calm and collected
- [ ] brave
- [ ] likes thrilling activities (rollercoaster etc
- [ ] wants to travel the world
- [ ] good taste in fashion
- [ ] knows how to shop
- [ ] decisive
- [ ] replies when texting and doesn’t disappear randomly without saying anything before/after
- [ ] observant
- [ ] street smart
- [ ] no excuses
- [ ] straightforward
- [ ] doesn’t support andrew tate
- [ ] doesn’t support toxic masculinity
- [ ] opens the car door for me
- [ ] holds the door open
- [ ] follows the sidewalk rule
- [ ] isn’t afraid to express affection in public
- [ ] doesn’t call himself a sigma/alpha male
- [ ] positive
- [ ] can spell
- [ ] good immune system
- [ ] is not dry
- [ ] appreciates nap culture
- [ ] can speak and read a 2nd language fluently
- [ ] non-alcoholic
- [ ] not in a gang/mafia
- [ ] pure, innocent
- [ ] gives me advice and won’t just blindly support my decisions
- [ ] sane
- [ ] good sleep schedule
- [ ] “let’s go on a date, i have it all planned out” instead of “wanna go on a date?”
- [ ] can and will give reassurance when needed
- [ ] plans ahead
- [ ] appreciates me (no.110)
- [ ] “can i be your boyfriend” instead of “will you be my girlfriend”
- [ ] is not lazy and pathetic
- [ ] GOOD AT COMMUNICATING
- [ ] does not have a perfunctory attitude
- [ ] cute and wholesomeIF YOU’RE MAD, DEAL WITH IT. DO BETTER.if u made it here this is a joke to scare away thirsty people :33